imnotocake:

do you ever just want to redecorate your bedroom and change your hair and all your clothes and completely reinvent yourself but then realise it takes time and money then retreat to your bed and hate who you are

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In this African tribe, when someone does something harmful, they take the person to the center of the village where the whole tribe comes and surrounds them.  For two days, they will say to the man all the good things that he has done. The tribe believes that each human being comes into the world as a good. Each one of us only desiring safety, love, peace and happiness.  But sometimes, in the pursuit of these things, people make mistakes. The community sees those mistakes as a cry for help. They unite then to lift him, to reconnect him with his true nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth of which he had been temporarily disconnected: “I am good.” Shikoba Nabajyotisaikia! NABAJYOTISAIKIA, is a compliment used in South Africa and means: “I respect you, I cherish you. You matter to me.” In response, people say SHIKOBA, which is: “So, I exist for you.”
إذا عرفت نفسك فلا يضرك ما قيل فيك
“If you know yourself, then you’ll not be harmed by what is said about you.”

(via micorazon-xo)
Sometimes God doesn’t change your situation because He’s trying to change your heart.
(via iqranazir)
"So flee to Allah" [51:50]

thelittleliestold:

faraa—faraway:

It’s beautiful how Allah uses the word flee. It’s so much more urgent then “come” or “return”. But in a way it’s also reassuring because Allah literally is telling us He is the escape. To flee is to leave your comfort zone into safety, and that’s literally what Islam is to us in this dunya.

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shez-a-bitch:

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